Teaching your children values and How to be Happy for Others
How many of us are forever reminding our children to say "please" and "thank you", to remember others, and to be polite, well mannered and well behaved. But it goes deeper than that. You want to teach your children to be happy for other people's success, and to wish other people well, to judge people to the good. Sadly, there are people out there who do the opposite. They don't wish you well and they forever undermine your happiness and success. There is no greater gift you can give your children that to teach them generosity of spirit, wishing others well, judging "to the good" and even thinking good thoughts about others. For some people, one person's achievement is an illumination of their own failure, one person's success is a reminder of where they fall short. Ironically, I always feel that when someone does well, there is hope for the rest of us, and that we are all in this together anyway. By spreading love not hate, good words not bad, kindness not judgment, good wishes, not bad, we are in fact helping our own life and the life of others.
Tell your children that you love them and write to them, give them that confidence, so that no matter what obstacles they face, they can circumvent them with the inner strength, glow and love they have with them all the time.
Check out my book Love Mommy: Writing Love Letters to Your Baby, available in all major bookstores.

